If a Person Has These 7 Habits, Do Not Marry Him!
To marry someone is one of the biggest and most important decisions a woman has to make in her life. The person you choose will be the one you have to wake up next to, eat next to, breath, and simply live for the rest of your life.
No one should make this decision lightly, because you never know with whom you will end up with if you don’t analyze that person thoroughly.
If you aren’t careful enough, someone might fool you with their charm and nice words and you will end up with the wrong person.
These are the 7 habits you need to pay attention the most:
1. Someone who simply can’t completely trust you.
This person will always be suspicions of what are you doing when you are not together. They will second guess all your decisions and question all your life choices.
This behavior can only mean that they do not trust you and do not understand you. And without trust, no relationship has a happy end.
2. He does not like kids.
Not liking kids means a lack of zest for life and empathy. Only people who take themselves very serious don’t like children. And how can you have a child with someone who does not like one?
3. He is not keeping his word.
If he does not show up when he says that he will and instead he spends hours drinking with friends, there is a reason for you to worry.
Promises obviously do not mean anything to this person and with lack of communication you just cannot build a solid relationship.
4. He is not listening what you are saying.
When you go to him with a problem that you need help with, he does not listen or pay attention.
If he thinks that his problems matter more than yours, then this person will never give you the attention you need.
A good relationship requires understanding, helping and listening to each other, and if you do not have this then maybe it is time to leave.
5. Constantly competing with you.
He never admits that he is wrong and he is continuously fighting. Winning with this kind of person is almost impossible. This person has the need to be above you and not your equal. And what is a relationship without supporting, cherisher and growing up together?
6. He constantly flirts with other girls.
If you constantly catch him texting with other girls or even chatting with girls when you are around he will probably end up cheating on you.
If he is truly in love and committed to you he would not be doing that and his attention would be yours.
7. He is clingy.
This kind of person will always check where you are and with whom you are. He will constantly ask for all your attention and time. Even though it is good to feel loved and needed there is also a boundary that should not be crossed.
This kind of relationship ends up being manipulative, controlling and restrained, who wants to live like that?